The Gift of Influence: How Great Leaders Create Life-Changing and Lasting Impact--In Organizations, Others, and Themselves

The Gift of Influence: How Great Leaders Create Life-Changing and Lasting Impact--In Organizations, Others, and Themselves

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  • Create Date:2022-12-15 06:51:27
  • Update Date:2025-09-06
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  • Author:Tommy Spaulding
  • ISBN:0593138635
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Summary

An empowering manifesto on how to use influence to make a lasting impact on everyone we meet, from chance encounters to work colleagues to our closest relationships--by the New York Times bestselling author of The Heart-Led Leader

Researchers believe that the average person will influence up to 80,000 people--2。8 people daily--over the course of their lifetime。 That's a stadium full of people whom each of us affect positively or negatively, sometimes without us knowing。 What if we paid attention to this fact? Would we live differently? Would we lead differently? Would we take more time to put down our phones and instead focus on the person in front of us?

Tommy Spaulding believes the answer is yes。 In this compelling and deeply personal book, Spaulding explores how we can be more mindful and effective in wielding the influence each of us has over others--in our careers, in our everyday interactions, and in the relationships we cultivate over a lifetime。

The Gift of Influence is a manifesto on the everyday actions we can take to make a positive impact on the people we love and lead。 Sharing stories from the exceptional leaders he has worked with over the years--from entrepreneurs who have made an impact far beyond their businesses to a teacher who changed the lives of thirty students with one simple lesson--Spaulding gives us a simple recipe for turning transactions into interactions, offering more than thoughts and prayers to those in need, and transforming the lives each of us touch as we make our way through the world。

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Reviews

Brianna Bachteler

Great lessons and stories。 All "Influencers" should read this book。 Great lessons and stories。 All "Influencers" should read this book。 。。。more

Brandon Power

Can be a bit too touchy feely for my liking at times, but it's a great quick read and I think an excellent companion to Dale Carnegie。 Great inspiration to stop being so selfish and continue to find ways you can positively influence others。 Its not about you! Can be a bit too touchy feely for my liking at times, but it's a great quick read and I think an excellent companion to Dale Carnegie。 Great inspiration to stop being so selfish and continue to find ways you can positively influence others。 Its not about you! 。。。more

John Davis

The Gift of Influence, by Tommy Spaulding; Currency: New York; $27。00 hardback Life can be problematic at best。 Such difficulties can be greatly alleviated if you are, or work for, a 'servant-leader'。 This concept is outstandingly illustrated in ‘The Gift of Influence’。 Tommy Spaulding, founder and president of his eponymous Leadership Institute, and formerly CEO of ‘Up with People’, captures first your imagination。 He explains how our lives could be so much better if certain principles of leade The Gift of Influence, by Tommy Spaulding; Currency: New York; $27。00 hardback Life can be problematic at best。 Such difficulties can be greatly alleviated if you are, or work for, a 'servant-leader'。 This concept is outstandingly illustrated in ‘The Gift of Influence’。 Tommy Spaulding, founder and president of his eponymous Leadership Institute, and formerly CEO of ‘Up with People’, captures first your imagination。 He explains how our lives could be so much better if certain principles of leadership were followed。 Then he shows how the world can truly be remade a better place, with a different understanding of what leadership means, indeed what servant-leadership entails。 We see a new way to influence and thus motivate people for concrete, lasting good。 Spaulding can tell a story。 To illustrate his points, he draws on a plethora of captivating examples。 The reason his proposals ring true is that we've all experienced his examples。 He demonstrates how to 'Create Life-Changing and Lasting Impact in Your Everyday Interactions。' We see what can come of a leadership mentality that sees people not as objects, but as fellow beings requiring respect。 How does this happen in our everyday lives? Spaulding tells of the nine-year-old little league player who became 'Captain' of his team。 He was selected not because he was biggest and best, but because he helped the least able, weakest player on his team to believe in himself。 What a start to young lives the coach made in this case! It is enough to make a reader cry。 Realize too that everyone has a story。 The guy who cleans the stadium after the game is as valuable as the football star who throws the winning touchdown。 Do we ever take the time to introduce ourselves to these maintenance and cleaning people? After all, these are the very folks we almost 'see through' when we are going to a game。 How much our attention to them and 'their story' would mean to make them feel alive, wanted, and valued。 Gandhi is quoted as saying, "The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others。" How true, no? We discover the idea, and follow it through in our real everyday lives。 It is then we intend, and choose consciously to become a servant leader。 Then we invest the time and effort it takes to do so。 It's not all about me, but what I can do for others。 We aren't left with abstract ideas。 We are told about Spaulding's Aunt Lorelee。 She became a nun。 She wanted to dedicate her lives to caring for others。 Her initiative, drive, and attention to the least of those she encountered led to a career as teacher of poor girls in impoverished, war-torn Liberia。 There she taught those without hope to see themselves as of value to the world; such that they too could and should learn to read and write。 Confronted by revolutionaries at her school one day, she stood between her girls and the armed teenage thugs and said if they wanted to murder the children, they'd have to shoot her first。 After a tense standoff, they left without firing a shot。 Spaulding recalled her boundless energy spent not on herself, but on others; including, later in life, her mother with dementia。 Employing terms to make his points clear and memorable, Spaulding will reward the reader with insights on how to win in life。 When we see ourselves as a conduit to the raising up of others, we see the world in a different way。 We see it as a true servant leader。 。。。more

Joye

I really enjoyed this one。 It starts out with a bang and then continues to keep my attention。 Loved all the stories of several people and their journey to become the best version of themselves。 Inspiring!Bravo Tommy。 Well done。 Joye Smith